Them is a female-led physical theatre performance. It is based on dozens of interviews with individuals from different countries who identify as male, exploring their understanding of masculinity and life itself. Following these interviews, four actresses from Iceland and Finland, drawing upon their own experiences, delve deeply into this masculinized world, sharing stories about love, the influence of fathers, gender identity as women, self-esteem, and the fear of being burdensome. The play offers sharp critiques of toxic masculinity and profound reflections on the overarching gender structure. What's particularly valuable is that "Them" gently, humorously, and empathetically dismantles many myths surrounding gender constructs, attempting to explore and embrace individual vulnerabilities with curiosity and openness, while listening with empathy. As a physical theatre performance, seamlessly blending elements of surrealism with those of documentary theatre.